The nerves of some people
“Tactile defensiveness,” explains Kau, refers to tactile systems that are oversensitive and thus raise alarms about normal, non-threatening tactile input. For instance, although most people accept seatbelts as a reasonable bodily restraint, they are much harder to bear for those with tactile defensiveness—who may feel as a normal person would if his whole body were tightly bound.
Children who suffer from tactile defensiveness are a handful for their parents because they will scream bloody murder about activities as simple as washing their hair. Clothes that aren’t perfectly creased—never mind a visit to the dentist or getting jostled on the playground—can spoil their mood for a day.
On the other hand, children with tactile hyposensitivity tend to roughhouse in an extreme manner, heedless of adults’ warnings. And they don’t have much of a reaction to scrapes, cuts and bruises. Being less sensitive to pain themselves, they are more likely to inflict physical pain on animals and other people.
To help promote normal tactile development, Kau advises parents to massage these children’s hands, feet and back before they wash and go to sleep, thereby stimulating the system and easing any tension that has arisen from tactile sensation. What’s more, one can use toothbrushes, washcloths, tactile brushes and other tools to provide stable and ample stimulation, so as to aid the integration of all of the child’s tactile nerves.
Proprioceptive dysfunction
Finally, the proprioceptive system is a major behind-the-scenes player in getting the body to orient itself, sense the location of its various parts, adopt a posture, and modulate proper levels of force. The sensory receptors of this system are found mainly in the joints, ligaments and connective tissues.
Su Chia-ting, chair of the Department of Occupational Therapy at Fu Jen Catholic University, notes that children with impaired proprioceptive systems often aren’t clear about how to control the various parts of their bodies. Seemingly lacking a clear map of their own bodies, they are much clumsier when learning how to move. “Unfortunately, children can often be very cruel, so kids who can’t dance or throw or kick balls well can easily get ostracized,” says Su.
Games that depend on heavy use of the muscles and joints, such as kicking balls, jumping rope, hopscotch, tossing Frisbees, bouncing on trampolines and so forth are all good ways of exercising the proprioceptive system. And when children with proprioceptive disorders try new activities, parents and teachers need to grant them sufficient time to practice and learn from their mistakes. These kids need to slowly gain confidence. They can’t be rushed.
An explanation
Su emphasizes that one of the biggest contributions made by the theory of sensory processing is providing parents with an explanation for their children’s behavior. Parents and teachers used to try to use carrots and sticks to control these kids, but the results would never live up to intentions. But once people gain a conception of sensory processing, they realize that when these children “misbehave,” their behavior is rooted in neurological development and they aren’t intentionally causing trouble.
Another problem is when parents bury their head in the sand and say of children with sensory processing dysfunctions that “they’ll grow out of it.” Experts point out that the golden period of sensory processing development extends to the age of seven or eight. Any sensory processing disorder can be greatly helped by therapy during this period. Conversely, there is also the possibility that the situation can worsen.
“For instance, if left untreated, children with vestibular hyposensitivity are almost certain to suffer from ADHD when they grow up,” Huang says.
The right to play
How do you prevent children from suffering from sensory processing disorders? Apart from making sure that mothers-to-be get suitable exercise and aren’t overstressed or do drugs during their pregnancies, education, culture and the environment all can have a big impact.
Sensory stimulation during infancy has an even bigger impact on personality development. Su Chia-ting, who dealt with many Yugoslav war orphans in the United States, notes that those children had been confined to cribs and cared for en masse in churches. Although they were adopted by kind parents in the US, they continued to display signs of high anxiety as they grew and would frequently scream and shout—all as a result of being denied the stimulation of being hugged, caressed and rocked as infants.
Because “sensory deprivation” can have a big impact, parents should encourage and respect activities that children seek out or initiate. For instance, crawling is essential for cultivating infants’ tactile discrimination. If parents, out of fears that the ground is too dirty, or for reasons of safety or convenience, put them in baby walkers instead, it could result in impaired tactile development.
And during childhood, when play is so important, parents must take a hands-off attitude and let their children play and explore the world as much as possible. If children’s days are filled with scheduled classes, the lack of physical activity could impact the development of their vestibular and proprioceptive systems.
In comparison to the educational philosophy of helping children “win the race by getting a head start,” sensory processing theory emphasizes “how to help exhausted ‘little racers’ to run without working so hard.” It aims to provide an understanding of why children may stumble as they grow up and of how to help them run the race of childhood both healthily and happily. That’s the collective wish of all parents, and a responsibility that they cannot shirk.