Why such devotion?
In recent years, we've seen dramatic changes in society and the disintegration of the value system. As a result, people have become desperate for a spiritual safe haven. In such circumstances, it's only natural that people would turn to religion and reevaluate the meaning of their lives. But why do they find it necessary to make such radical changes, giving up their natal families, work, and personal property?
"People with a strong religious bent are drawn to this kind of life," says Lin Ku-fang, head of Fo Guang University's Graduate Institute of Art Studies. Lin says that most people don't seek solace in religion until they run upon hard times, but a few are dissatisfied with the material world even when they themselves are prospering. This latter type often seeks to understand the meaning of life and make peace with death.
The solution most commonly offered by religion is a belief in something larger than ourselves (a personal god) that resolves the difficulties of us lesser beings. Monotheistic faiths such as Christianity are of this type. And Pure Land Buddhism, with its emphasis on focused chanting of the Buddha's name and its notion of rebirth in the Western Pure Land paradise, also tends in this direction. New religions that stress the adulation of their founder also fall into this category.
For those wanting to integrate themselves into a greater whole, a collective that lives and works together can help keep the outside world at bay. Members draw strength and conviction from their communal pursuit of religious practice and typically have access to personal instruction and spiritual guidance from the founder or leader of their sect. These communities resemble traditional Buddhist or Catholic monasteries, except that the members haven't themselves become monks and can still move back and forth between the cloister and the workaday world.
But there is a downside. Within these communities, members who have had no rigorous religious education have no place to hide. Every aspect of their lives is open to scrutiny, and they may well feel compelled to change themselves in order to fit in. Those who sacrifice their lives out in the world to fully participate in one of these communities but then find that, for whatever reason, they don't fit in, are often left without any support.
In Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha, author Tara Brach highlights this risk in her description of the humiliation she experienced after eight years living in an American ashram.
Brach, a clinical psychologist married to another member of the ashram, spent many busy years attending to her studies, her work, and her community. When she eventually found herself unable to keep up, the leader of the ashram began targeting her with criticism. Some time thereafter, she became pregnant. Initially ecstatic at the prospect of welcoming a new life into the world, she ultimately miscarried. In her pain, she turned to the ashram's leader seeking answers. Perhaps he felt that her questions reflected doubt in him or a lack of faith in his teaching. In any case, he chose to attack her in front of several hundred of her fellow community members. He claimed that her worldly ambitions and self-centeredness had killed the child, that she engaged in sex merely for pleasure, and that she hadn't really wanted a child. Grief-stricken and terrified, she almost had a breakdown. She feared that she would no longer be accepted by the group or her husband, explaining that the community so adored the teacher that she didn't see how she could continue to be a part of it. She ultimately chose to leave, and, after learning afresh how to accept herself, wrote her book.
Brach is a strong, highly educated woman who has been cherished her whole life. Imagine instead those with fragile personalities who are rejected by the teacher they venerate, lose the protection of their spiritual community, then go into a self-imposed exile. How would these kinds of people respond to such a battering?
In the US, the Pennsylvania Amish community has managed to retain its religious way of life for nearly 300 years. Amish women still don prayer caps and eschew makeup, and both genders wear very plain clothing to symbolize their purity and obedience.