Life begins at 50
Daniel Chieh, born by the Akungtien Reservoir in Kaohsiung in 1945, liked to paint from a young age. In junior high he began to study oil painting. But he scored "too well" on the Joint University Entrance Exams, so that though he had been looking forward to attending the National Taiwan College of Arts, he entered the Department of International Trade at National Chengchi University. He became an international marketing expert and served as general manager and director for multinational corporations.
In 2002, after stepping down from heading Greater China operations for the Schmidt Group, a German technology company, Chieh discovered that his life was free from care, so he picked up a brush to fulfill his youthful dream of becoming an artist. For four years, he has followed the migration of red-crowned cranes, flying to Siberia, Daxing'anling in China, the northern islands of Japan and the Korean peninsula--all to capture lifelike renderings of red-crowned cranes.
With regard to balancing his work and his dreams, Daniel Chieh has a practical "three lives" philosophy, consisting of "life, living, and lifestyle." Life is fragile so one needs to work out and keep healthy. You've got to make a living to be able to support your family. And only with these two can you enjoy a lifestyle wherein you can pursue your dreams.
For those in middle age, already anticipating retirement, social obligations always come before their dreams. At the same time as realizing their dreams, they must live up to their responsibility to take care of their families. Consequently, there is a two-act model: a person's first act is making a family and establishing a career, and pursuing professional success, and the second act is the "golden age" in which people seek personal fulfillment.
Michael Tao, chairman of children's clothing company Chickabiddy, feels that if you find it difficult to combine your work with your dreams, there are two things you should do. First, you must learn to find pleasure in adversity and maintain a happy working attitude. Second, you might as well try to expand the scope of your dreams. For instance, he loves country music, and he then expanded that to Peking Opera, Kun Opera, Taiwanese Opera and pop music. "The broader your interests, the easier it is to incorporate them into your life and take joy from them." Tao stresses that it is important not to have overly narrow, or inflexible dreams.
"You don't have just one role in life. At different stages of life, different things are primary and different things secondary," notes Sung Pan-ping, a section chief in the Department of Compilation and Translation at the Government Information Office, about more than 20 years of balancing work, family and personal fulfillment.
At age 17, Sung became taken with Kun Opera, and it is through Kun Opera that she met her husband, a bamboo flute player who is now a university professor. The husband and wife have worked hard to pass down the legacy of Kun Opera in Taiwan. Yet after her two daughters were born, Sung, as a professional woman, was caught between her work and her children, and for nearly ten years she cast aside all opportunities to perform. But she still made the effort to take in an occasional show and to teach opera. "No matter what, I wouldn't leave it entirely," she says.
It wasn't until her children were older that Sung accepted a position as director of the opera company in the year 2000. Apart from her administrative duties, two or three nights a week she teaches opera and rehearses. And on holidays and weekends, when they actually perform, her husband or younger sister takes care of her children.
"Kun Opera has been something I've counted on my whole life. By now it almost takes higher priority than my family!" says Sung, who has attained a rich, full life. She really inhabits her roles--tasting the joys and sorrows, separation and reunion in the operas. She finds stepping into new roles addictive and rewarding.
Sung Pan-ping, who has worked as a public servant for more than 20 years, gives her all to promoting the Shuimo Kun Opera Company, which she directs.